MJG:

Thanks for posting about CHILDHOOD MOLESTATION. Both my wife and her best friend were molested as young girls, though the best friend was also brutalized.

I had been married for TEN YEARS before my wife trusted me enough to tell me about her true childhood experiences.

As a result, her father is absolutely FORBIDDEN to enter our home. (All negative energy MUST STAY OUT!)

This issue is one that frankly makes me sick to my stomach. Especially the fact that how I first found out was by listening to my wife talk in her sleep --- IN THE VOICE OF A FIVE YEAR OLD GIRL!!!

And --- I had spent TEN YEARS wondering why there were NO SLEEPOVERS at Grandma and Grandpa's house, for all of our neices and nephews.

Hearing a 35 year old woman sleep talk in the voice of a five year old is a very MIND-FUCKY kind of an experience.

The fact that she ended up with a BEST FRIEND who also had this shared experience in her own childhood --- might speak for that longing for acceptance and identification they all search for throughout their adult lives.

I advocate the DEATH PENALTY for all childhood molestation cases --- it might seem a bit harsh --- but this has affected my wife in very peculiar ways.

Peace and Prayers,

Kent Daniel Bentkowski Buffalo, New York USA