with my rant (everybody's got a rant), gets us nowhere.  Listen to the song and watch the video:  it's a good song by Geldof.......  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pdSM0-gQPYA

& here's one other thing by Geldof. 

I’m not a divorced dad, counted blessing there, but, watching this following piece, I thought about those gents I do know who are not fully in their children’s lives…& so figured it may (…or may not, I don’t know) be of interest or service (hopefully not just an outright bummer) to somebody here. 

I wonder what’s come of it…………………………….

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQeNwLsA058

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I really do wish the lot of you well; ...if that's what you want anyway..................

g'bye