Unload any time you want, Reg. I'm sure those of us who visit this board -- lurkers and frequent posters alike -- are well acquainted with, or are at least cognizant of, the underside of human experience. Better put, life can just downright suck, can't it? Sounds like a helluva hard life you and those around you have been living. Hang in there, ok? You've got plenty to look forward to. Just kick the darkness, man ...