great, now we're quoting rednecks.
i was at a small dinner party last night for some friends who tied the knot after 7 years together; they were happier than my ability to describe. i talked to a dear co-worker today who had just gotten hitched with his amigo of 8 years, ditto there. try looking into people's eys and souls, and see joy, awe, gratitude, justice - and the same heavenly love that was in yours on your wedding day. or keep them tightly shut and live your life that way. it's your choice.
