Listen hon, you go and try and enjoy yourself. It won't be easy, but don't hold your bro up from his unplugged project by having him sitting around jawing. We're hungry for songs out here, and we need feeding. btw ask him if he can write more songs about dysfunctional relationships where people love each other but are even more addicted to themselves and stumble from one day to the next, so I can remind myself what mere mortals do.