Cheers to you and your wife, sir!
I suspect both of you truly understood and believed your vows and "got" what marriage meant to you, when the knot was tied. Indeed, I'm guessing you understand much more, today, than you did when you watched her walk down the aisle that day 21 years ago.
Nah -- no secrets, I'm guessing. Just truth, love, understanding, and strength -- in each of you and through both of you.
Here's to the next 21!
