I think you do measure it differently, Im a person who believes in respect from your wife... If you have a mental problem and your wife mocked you to other people,  you would laugh huh? If your wife speaks without taking 5 minutes to research what she was talking about, good huh? I know if your poor as dirt and she is filthy rich you would'nt care what she did... You know she hung out the Limo window asking the reporters "wheres the bar?"... Yep she's got class... As a regular person she might be a riot, but as the first lady, were going to get alot of respect around the world.